Sex Suppressors… Continues… PLEASE DO NOT SKIP…
Factor-2: LACK OF DESIRE FOR SEX:
If a couple does not love each other, or if they hate each other, or if suspicion occurs* between them, the desire for sex will be suppressed nearly permanently.
(*Suspicion related to chastity of the spouse, such as adultery, tends to ruin the marital relationship.)
On the other hand, simple day-to-day petty quarrels, although would keep the couple away for a day or two, would eventually bring them a lot more closer than before.
In other words, petty quarrels in marital life would add spice to their relationship, and tend to intensify the love and affection rather than interfere in attaining pregnancy.
(** A verse in Thirukkural, written some 2050 years ago, reads, as per my translation, “Petty quarrels patronise the pleasures of sex. It gets further enhanced when they indulge in it, after a reconciliation”)
I remember to have read in Milton’s epic called “Paradise Lost” a passage that I have often been using to derive very useful results.
It reads, ”A mind can make a hell of heaven, and a heaven of hell”. We often say that there could be no point in weeping over a glass of spilt milk.
By saying all these, I am just trying to arrive at the following point:
(***In the epic, God creates hell, and throws into it the mighty leader of the rebellions Satan and all his followers.
Satan, upon looking at the pathetic state of his defeated warriors wallowing in the pool of fire, motivates them through his oration.
He tells them that their mind can imagine the hell to be the heaven, and their life would become different, positive and successful.
This has become one of the most quoted passages in the English language, world-wide.)
Being a normal human being, everyone is susceptible to develop some kind of hatred for his or her spouse.
This appears to be happening, for almost certainly, as a ‘middle-age crisis’ among couples.
I think, it would be best to think in terms of compromising with the spouse, rather than finding more and more faults, which may destroy a good marital life.
One should develop a philosophical attitude towards life.
This kind of contemplation would ease the tensed mind, and the couple is almost sure to unite well again.
It would be better to remember the popular saying that “two clocks never run the same”.
All of us are bound to make mistakes.
That is probably why they say,” To err is human, to excuse is divine”.
As the poetic verse pointed out, reconciliation would only make the life more pleasant.
By a re-union, we gain, and we do not lose.
Thus, this would form a ‘win-win’ situation, where no one loses.
As a result, a strong desire for sex would develop, and both the spouses are bound to enjoy a great deal.
Rule-2: EXHIBIT MORE LOVE TO INCREASE A STRONG DESIRE FOR SEX.
This does not need any explanation.
Factor-3: IMMUNITY AGAINST VIRUS INFECTIONS:
Those who never had any common cold or flu fever during the past five years are considered to have very high immunity against virus infections.
In the blood of these people, the white cell count and platelets tend to be more than normal.
This group of people tend to be extremely poor when it comes to sex-related activities.
Those who get common cold once or twice a year tend to have excellent sex potentials.
Those who get common cold and fever every now and then appear to be hypersexed.
The method for enhancing sex among the immune people may be found elsewhere in this book, as well as in my book dealing with Heart problems and diabetes, (pages 217-218.)
RULE-3: WILLINGLY ALLOW COMMON COLD INFECTION ONCE A YEAR TO MAINTAIN YOUR SEX POTENTIAL AT ITS BEST.
FACTOR-4: DIABETES MELLITUS (TYPES I OR II)
Tremendous energy is required for a full exploitation of one’s own sex potentials.
Carbohydrates (such as rice and sugars) we eat are digested with the help of insulin, and energy gets released.
When insulin secretion is hampered as in the case of Diabetics, sufficient energy may not become available.
Besides, owing to the malfunctioning of the body metabolism, at an advanced state of the ailment, erectile dysfunction (impotency) occurs.
When this happens, coitus becomes impossible. Most men, with this health problem, suffer silently.
To have full sex potential, one should be able to digest all the foods eaten.
For insulin to secrete at a normal rate, one should regularly urinate all the liquids/water he/she consumes.
Irrespective of the quantity of water a person drinks, even if he/she totally avoids sugar or carbohydrate consumption, if he or she is going to urinate only twice or thrice a day, daily, he/she is bound to develop Diabetes Mellitus Type II, which would require the taking of insulin tablets.
A person who eats abnormally excessive quantities of sugar at all times would develop Diabetes Mellitus Type I.
In both the above cases, a man tends to suffer from erectile dysfunction.
He will remain so unless and until his diabetic condition is reversed, which is possible in the practice of Ecological Healing System.
Further useful information may be read in my book on heart problems and diabetes (Palaniappan, 2001).
From this, it is clear that if a person wishes to retain his sex potentials at its best, he should drink at least 2 L of pure water daily, and urinate nearly all of it, through some 9 or 10 urinations in a 24-hours’ day.
RULE-4: GET YOUR DIABETES CURED SOON TO REGAIN YOUR SEX POTENTIALS.
OK, friends, let me continue with the rest in a day or two.
Until then, bye,