The following may appear to be familiar to you.
YET, THEY TEND TO CONTAIN COMPLETELY DIFFERENT EXPLANATIONS.
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FACTOR-1: LACK OF ENERGY FOR SEX
One major factor could be the type of food people eat.
In the first place, they should eat ENOUGH food to obtain adequate amount of energy**.
(**Meat is high-density food, and therefore, it gives more energy.)
When one eats excessive meat, then he develops a strong desire for sex.
In fact, most of the rape criminals do so because of the EXCESSIVE energy ‘bubbling’ in them, owing to excessive meat consumption.
Contrary to this, those consuming vegetarian diet alone, normally, never commit such violent crimes.
The best diet should consist of a mediocre quantity of meat items, along with rice/potato, vegetables and fruits.
Such a food would give the person good ‘appetite’ for sex, WITHOUT the aggressive and brutal attitude of the animals.)
Secondly, they should eat food prepared with several SPICES.
The would kindle their desire for sex.
Total starvation as well as a BLAND diet would kill your appetite for sex altogether.
I am not aware of what the nuns eat in the residential monasteries.
But I know very well that the ‘Sadhus' or the sages, along with their disciples, in an Ashram (hostel/hut, with least comforts) practicing ‘Brahmacharya' (strictly renounced bachelorhood) eat bland food that is totally devoid of any spices, and that includes avoidance of SALT***, ONION, GARLIC and. CHILLI.
(*** This would deprive off iodine in the consumer, thus reducing the thyroid secretion, which would in turn, reduce the metabolism.
As a result, all bodily functions, including hunger, and the desire for sex, would get drastically reduced.)
WHEN ONE EATS A BLAND FOOD OF THIS KIND FOR A WEEK, HIS OR HER ‘THIRST' OR URGE FOR SEX GETS TOTALLY RUINED.
As a matter of interest, I ate that kind of food for a while in 1955 at the ‘Aravinder Ashram' located in Pondicherry, Tamil Nadu, South India, when all the students of our class were taken on a tour there.
One has to condition his/her mind to like the food at initial stages.
After a day or two, one would, without any hesitation, enjoy eating that kind of just steamed or boiled bland diet, for that too will become a taste in its own right!
It was a total vegetarian food, of course!
When one takes UNSPICED, BLAND VEGETARIAN diet for a prolonged period, sexual appetite gets totally lost.
Presence of beautiful girls around does not matter anymore. This is the kind of experience I had while being there.
There were many pretty women from all over the world.
I developed a feeling of sisterhood with every one of them without exception!
That, it occurred to me, was rather unusual.
The reverse is true when one starts eating a lot of animal flesh and spicy food.
Excessive consumption of animal flesh tends to give a person uncontrollable desire for sex, and this may then tempt one for undesirable activities such as raping without love, and the like.
However, ‘well brought-up’ (in an orthodox sense) boys in their teens and twenties, eating this kind of food, tend to masturbate very frequently, rather than getting involved in offensive activities.
If one is interested in enjoying sex in the real sense, he or she should keep meat consumption to an optimum ****, but eat well a rightly spiced vegetarian food most of the time.
(**** I have not studied as what is optimum, minimum, maximum, etc.
However, it is common knowledge that people living in the cold countries or highlands should eat more meat so as to keep themselves warm, and those in a hot climate should take less meat, since their body does not require any special energy to fight against a cold environment for survival.
Generally, I have observed most Indians in South India taking meat only once or twice a week, whereas, Europeans, North Americans and the Chinese generally take non-vegetarian food daily.
I have come across people who do not eat vegetables at all).
Sex must be considered as an artistic way of living, blended with love and affection.
It should not become an uncontrollable desire with animal instinct and brutality.
The spouses must care for each other.
It should enhance family life and togetherness.
Love for each other must flourish as a result of such a union. Then, sex becomes even more enjoyable.
WHAT ARE THE SPICES THAT WOULD GIVE THE RIGHT DESIRE FOR SEX?
HOW ARE THESE TO BE USED IN COOKERY?
Cookery is an art: it is the greatest art humans have ever found.
No matter who cooks the food. It should be done in the right way, in a manner suitable for each age group.
The cook must think of the consumers while preparing the food.
The finer details of cooking food in itself would form an elaborate subject matter. Therefore, this cannot be easily told in a few passages in this book.
THOSE INTERESTED SHOULD REFER TO THE OBESITY BOOK, WHEREIN I HAVE GIVEN AN UNIVERSAL RECIPE FOR COOKING ANY KIND OF VEGETABLE OR MEAT ITEM, USING SPICES FOR THE UPKEEP OF OPTIMUM INTEREST IN SEX LIFE EVEN INTO VERY LATE AGES (Palaniappan, 1998, pages 456-457).
If you cannot gain access to my book on obesity, you don’t have to develop any anxiety, for I will try to give the UNIVERSAL COOKING RECIPE in our BLOG soon.
SO, RULE-1: EAT ENOUGH AND BE ENERGETIC TO ENJOY SEX FULLY WELL.
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Our next part is going to deal with FACTOR-1: LACK OF DESIRE FOR SEX.
Until I come up with this, bye,